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Name SailorSaturn
Base Mood unsettled
Personal Mood I knew there was a hitch. Was told this morning by my boyfriend of nearly 4 years that he is officially diagnosed with a mild form of ADHD. As much as I care for him, there are times when his illogical mindset pisses me off like no tomorrow; he's trying to find medical excuses with his doctor and I'm not going to buy into that horseshit.

So he loves my children, cooks well, blows my mind out of the water when it comes to romance, but when it comes to day to day activities, he procrastinates like no tomorrow, gets unmotivated easily, strays from tasks, has severe memory issues, and cannot stay focussed, it drives me nuts.

He says it can be solved with pills. To me I'm getting sick and tired of his pill-popping mentality. A lot of his incompetence stems from the fact that he is resistance to change and learning. It's not that I haven't been doing anything about it. I set reminders, I call to check up on him, I tell him simple instructions... but if he disobeys then blames it on anything but himself, it pisses me off like no tomorrow.

He claims he's nothing like my ex-boyfriends and he's his own self, but I've been down this exact same road with every single person before him. A relationship is not considered healthy if it's all about fixing the other person. If people want to improve for the better, that's fine but one doesn't get into relationships to fix the other person. I'm sick and tired of picking up people's slack all the time.

Why can't I find a person who is reliable, smart, good-looking, and educated who is independently well off financially? Is that way too much to ask?!?
Mood Changed Dec 1, 2017
 
Sex Female
Homepage https://www.linkedin.com/in/sailorsaturn/
ICQ 10123861
AIM MessiahNoSaturn
Interests Japanese anime, web design, music, gardening, art, poetry

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